3. They’re Around—But Never Really There
These individuals often remain part of your social circle.
They attend gatherings. They send occasional messages. They may even offer small favors from time to time.
But when life becomes difficult—during illness, loss, or emotional hardship—they seem to disappear.
Their support tends to be convenient rather than meaningful.
A healthy relationship involves showing up when it matters most, not only when circumstances are easy.
4. Their Jokes Always Seem to Sting
Humor can bring people together, but it can also become a vehicle for hidden hostility.
Watch for people who frequently joke about:
- Your appearance
- Your age
- Your mistakes
- Your goals
- Your intelligence
When challenged, they often respond with:
- “Can’t you take a joke?”
- “I was only kidding.”
- “You’re too sensitive.”
If a joke repeatedly leaves you feeling embarrassed or diminished, it may not be harmless humor at all.
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